The Wholehearted Enneagram Podcast

How to Stop Self-Sabotaging This Holiday Season: According to Your Enneagram Type with Deanna Sudom

Amy Wicks

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Do you ever catch yourself falling into the same holiday patterns, over-committing, over-giving, or over-thinking, and wonder why you do it again every year?

In this heartfelt conversation, Amy Wicks and guest Deanna Sudom unpack how each Enneagram type self-sabotages during the holiday season and how to find freedom, grace, and grounding instead.

You’ll discover:

  • Why self-sabotage is really self-protection in disguise
  • How the Enneagram reveals your unique “spiral” and God’s invitation to peace
  • Simple, Christ-centered practices to pause, release control, and reconnect with what matters most

Whether you’re an Enneagram One perfecting the plan, a Two trying to make everyone happy, or a Nine retreating for peace, this episode will help you catch the pattern before it catches your peace.

Takeaway: Your starting point doesn’t have to be your stuck point.
 The opposite of sabotage isn’t success, it’s surrender.

Resources mentioned:

  • Deanna’s Prayers for Each Enneagram Type → https://www.capstonefreedomcoaching.com/
  • Advent Podcast Playlist → https://www.simplywholehearted.com/enneagram-gift-guide
  • John Eldredge’s One Minute Pause App

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